Book of Memories for Judas Taddeus "Jude Toddy" D'Souza

Condolence From Jack & Mel Noronha

Sat, 08 Sep 2018 14:41:11 EDT

We will miss that calm and steady voice full of love. Jude loved people and this is the quality we will remember most. We were privileged to meet him not so very long ago. He stayed with us and it WAS fun. Meryl we will not forget that visit. May his soul RIP X Melly, Jack Maryann and John

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Wed, 05 Sep 2018 15:53:10 EDT

Ushering in New Year 2018

Condolence From Hitesh R. Parmar

Wed, 05 Sep 2018 15:49:39 EDT

I cannot find words to express my grief. I will forever remember fondly Uncle Toddy, his ever cheerful attitude towards life and child-like enthusiasm with which he brought alive even the most boring of occasions. Our New Year’s party was a blast with you ! May his soul rest in peace and give strength to his family to overcome such a great loss.

Condolence From Sierra Sequeira

Tue, 04 Sep 2018 08:38:59 EDT

Dear Merl and family, Very sorry to hear of the death of your husband Jude. May his soul rest in Peace, and may God grant each of you the strength now and in the days to follow, Thoughts and prayers go out to each of you. Yours in Sorrow, Dominic and Sierra sequeira Calgary, Alberta

Condolence From Simon, Perpetua & Mrs Natividade (X.R.) Fernandes

Mon, 03 Sep 2018 20:58:40 EDT

Our thoughts and prayers are with Merl, children and grand-children and the Mascarenhas family at this time of loss. With deepest sympathy.

Condolence From Erik and Stacia D'Souza

Thu, 30 Aug 2018 15:42:38 EDT

Our deepest condolences go out to you Auntie Merl, Darrell, Rachel, Daniel and family. When I think of uncle Toddy, I think of him forever smiling, telling a joke, and calling me a “silly goomba”. I also think of his elephant paintings. I was always amazed by his ability to capture the essence of such a majestic animal; they must have been kindred spirits. Like Elephants, I’ve always thought of uncle Toddy as larger than life, stoic, and having an unbreakable family bond. I miss you Uncle Toddy, but every time I look at one of your paintings I'll see you and remember all my cherished memories of our time together.

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Thu, 30 Aug 2018 14:49:14 EDT

A Goan Re-union

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Thu, 30 Aug 2018 14:46:47 EDT

The Vikings in Action

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Condolence From A.Anthony Fernandes

Thu, 30 Aug 2018 06:19:28 EDT

Fare ye well Toddy ! Gentlemen and king amongst men . In deepest empathy with cousin Merl D'Souza nee Mascarenhas , children Darryl, Rachel ,Daniel and families and the clan Mascarenhas /D'Souza Hard to accept how quickly this final voyage flew by ,just months after we saw you here in London ,little knowing it would be the last time. The first sight of a longish haired Toddy in his 'saffron coloured ' 'hippy' coloured drawstring pants , circa May 1973 in front of Fernandes Guest House Calangute Goa will always remain emblazoned in one's memory . He was 25 and in his prime . My Aunt Melvyn and Uncle William (Willy ) both deceased had invited my Dad Luciano ,Mum Joyce , brother Leo (all since deceased) and myself to visit with the Mascarenhas family ,those halcyon summer days ,when Goa and Calangute moved to the pace of a much slower drummer ! He had travelled along with his brother Anthony and Bossie ( Bosco) and perhaps others across the overland so named Hippy Trail across Turkey ,Iran, Afghanistan etc to Goa , a route that would soon become almost impossible especially after the Soviet's invaded Afghanistan .https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hippie_trail Kind and caring to a fault , humble and unassuming , yet quietly king of his own counsel and castle Rest ye well, good Sir ! May we strive to emulate the life you lived so well Valhalla beckons !

Condolence From Stephen, Janet and Meaghan D'Souza

Wed, 29 Aug 2018 18:59:46 EDT

Dear Auntie Merl, Darrell, Rachel, Daniel, Patricia, Sam and Anna, Our deepest condolences. While far away, we share in your sadness and cherish our memories. Uncle Toddy has been a towering figure throughout my life. In childhood, I fondly remember arriving after a long road-trip from Montreal to the warmth and laughter of Toddy's embrace. He was always so welcoming and kind, even when I was an obnoxious teen. The day after our wedding, Janet's family held a get-together of family and friends. When we got their late in the morning, the house was overflowing with people, but no one noticed we had arrived. They were all focused on Toddy in the backyard with a guitar across his knee, leading them in songs. It felt like so many summer bar-b-ques in our backyard. Last year, Toddy and Merl came to visit us in Vancouver. He immediately hugged us like it hadn't been more than a decade since we had seen each other. Meaghan, then 10-years old, was swept into his warmth and laughter. Uncle Toddy will always be close to our hearts. Love, Stephen, Janet and Meaghan

Condolence From Anna Domanico (dental hygienist)

Wed, 29 Aug 2018 14:50:16 EDT

My deepest heartfelt sympathy to you, Merl, and your entire family,Darrell Rachel and Daniel and grandchildren. Thinking of all of you during this difficult time. Such a lovely family!! I hope that all the wonderful memories you have with Jude will ease some of your pain. He was such a nice man! You are in my thoughts, Anna ❤️

Condolence From Christophe & Cecile De Medeiros

Wed, 29 Aug 2018 08:31:48 EDT

All our condolence to the family. We will miss Toddy so much, he was a great fishing partner, always smiling, and such a good happy person.

Condolence From Joy

Wed, 29 Aug 2018 07:38:19 EDT

May care and love of those around you provide comfort and peace to get you through the days ahead. Our most sincere condolences. We are never prepared for the loss of a loved one but God is always prepared to help us through that loss. May His presence begin the healing in your heart and soul and may His love surround you with the comfort He can give. May Toddy's soul RIP. Love, Joe, Joy & family xx

Condolence From Joy

Wed, 29 Aug 2018 07:09:01 EDT

Dear Monica, Philu, Sean, Shannon & families, May care and love of those around you provide comfort and peace to get you through the days ahead. Our most sincere condolences. We are never prepared for the loss of a loved one but God is always prepared to help us through that loss. May His presence begin the healing in your heart and soul and may His love surround you with the comfort He can give. Love, Joe, Joy & family xx

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Wed, 29 Aug 2018 01:07:44 EDT

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Condolence From Gracy & Armando Fernandes

Tue, 28 Aug 2018 22:10:27 EDT

Dear Merl,Rachel,Daniel,Darrell and family our deepest sympathy for your loss.Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.Toddy was a great person .God bless! condolences from Gracy,Armando,Andrew and Michael.

Condolence From Ruthanne & Darryl Whitwell

Tue, 28 Aug 2018 17:58:19 EDT

Merl & family We are sorry to hear of your loss of Jude..our thoughts & prayers are with you at this time.. Ruthanne & Darryl Whitwell

Condolence From Savio Da Silva and Family

Tue, 28 Aug 2018 16:35:19 EDT

With deepest sympathy to you Merl, Darrell, Rachael and Daniel at this very difficult time. My dearest Godfather (Mum and Dad knew what they were doing!), you have featured in my earliest fond memories and while I’m writing this with great sadness, a smile keeps appearing when I think how you showed me to live life to the fullest. My memories of your love will always be with me. From spending weekends with you and Merl in your Colindale flat as a young boy, to your supporting me as a 15-year-old teenager in Canada, to the last time we met when you volunteered to get in the boot of the taxi from the wedding (Dawn is so glad she finally got to meet Uncle Toddy and Merl). Memories of you that will live in my heart forever. I will try to take your shining example and use it now with my own family but believe me when I say this world is a sadder place without you. Deepest love Savio and family x

Condolence From Marg Blair

Tue, 28 Aug 2018 14:04:34 EDT

Dear D’Souza Family, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved husband and father. May the Good Lord wrap his loving arms around you and bring you peace as you journey through this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Condolence From Simpson/Wilson family

Tue, 28 Aug 2018 08:20:07 EDT

Our deepest sympathy on the loss of a great husband, father, grandfather and brother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Patti, Paul, Alanna and Liam

Condolence From Fina D'Souza

Tue, 28 Aug 2018 03:04:39 EDT

Our heartfelt condolences to all the family during this difficult time. Remembering Toddy and all of you very especially during the Holy Mass which we will offer for the repose of his soul here in Kenya. Fina, Sylvie, James, Martha and Marisol

Condolence From Tony and Bridget DeSouza

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 21:31:37 EDT

Our Dearest Merl, Darrell and Family, Rachael, Daniel. Our Deepest, sincere and heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your beloved husband, father and grandfather. Toddy, may you find comfort knowing that those who love the Lord, living His commandments, will live forever in Him, even as their memories live forever in our hearts. A Legacy Of Love! Happy and smiling. Always content. Loved and Respected. Wherever he went. Always so thoughtful. Loving and kind. What a beautiful memory, to leave behind. For all of us, you did your best... May God grant you Heavenly Rest! We miss you Todds, but you will always be in our thoughts, hearts and prayers. Remembering the good fun-times we had together. Merl, our prayers and thoughts are with you all in this difficult time and ask God to comfort you with His loving and consoling arms. May his kind soul rest in eternal peace. God bless and love always. Tony and Bridget xoxo

Condolence From Amey De Souza & family

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 17:49:53 EDT

Dearest Merl, Rachel,Daniel,Darrell and family Our sincere sympathies to each and every one of you for the loss of my/our loving brother and uncle Toddy. He was the most loving and kind hearted brother who I will always hold dear in my heart forever. I will miss him dearly my sweet good kind young brother who always found love goodness in everyone around him. We will never forget him or his kindness to us all and his beautiful smile will be so much missed. He will always be in our hearts and we will always remind our children of his kind nature and good heart and his memory will never be forgotten. The sound of his lovely guitar playing and singing will always be remembered when Peter plays the guitar as he remembers how he played for his uncle Toddy last year - we are all saddened that he is gone but he is in heaven now with our Mum Dad Sister(Elva) and Brother(Anthony)their arms wrapped around him. We love you Toddy dear brother and uncle -Be strong Merl as he will always be at your side - May his beautiful soul rest in peace - love Amey, Senny, Jacob, Luke, Ronan and kids Peter Amey Amber and Kassandra xx

Condolence From Ian and Amy Martyres

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 17:49:39 EDT

Dearest Merl, Darrell & family, Rachel, and Daniel, So sorry to hear of your loss. Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May the Lord give you strength and comfort. God Bless, Amy, Ian, Stephanie, James and Matthew Martyres

Condolence From Armando Rodrigues

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 17:20:49 EDT

Dear Merl : Enid and I would like you to accept our sincere sympathy on the untimely demise of your beloved husband. Our condolences to the Mascarenhas clan as well, whom we knew well from our happy days in Entebbe. Jude, Marc and I always had a good rapport any time we met, not forgetting a nostalgic nip of Marc's "cajel" for good cheer. We will pray for his soul. Armand & Enid.

Memorial Candle lit by Jude, Ayrton, Fabian D'Silva

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 13:50:42 EDT

Jude, Ayrton, Fabian D'Silva

Condolence From Xavier Desouza

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 13:28:57 EDT

Dear Merl, Darrell, Rachael and Daniel, We are so sorry to hear about Uncle Toddy. He was a lovely man and will be sorely missed by all. Such a happy personality, with the ability to command and light up a room. His infectious smile and kindness filtering through everyone he met. One occasion last year I remember how happy and satisfisfied he was to have his family and and new grandchildren in his life. He was saying how he hadn't cleaned the house or mown the lawn for ages just so he could spend as much time as he could with the little ones. I will take that forward with me forever as it is not the menial, material things in life that matter. It is the quality time and moments shared with your family that really hold any meaning. We are so thankful we were able to spend time with him at the wedding and will always hold fond memories of that time. Take care and stay strong. All our love Xavier and Louise xxx

Condolence From Cedric & Tracy

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 13:16:06 EDT

Dearest Merl, Darryl & family, Rachael and Daniel. Our deepest sympathies go out to you all. We pray Our Lord gives you some measure of peace and comfort in the knowledge that dear Toddy is now free of all the suffering and is singing & partying in Heaven. I will always remember Toddy for his kindness, generosity of spirit and easy going nature. I will forever cherish the times we played guitar and sang together. I wish we had lived closer so we could have done that more. Toddy's was a beautiful heart and a beautiful Soul.....and he leaves behind a beautiful legacy that is you all. God Bless, Love and healing hugs, Cedric & Tracy ( Vancouver, BC).

Condolence From Elaine Kehoe

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 11:06:35 EDT

Dear Merl, Darrell (Patricia), Rachael and Daniel, Please accept our condolences on the passing of Jude. May God give you the comfort and peace that you seek and may the soul of your loved one rest in peace. Elaine and Paul Kehoe

Condolence From The DiIorio Family

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 10:53:22 EDT

Dear D'Souza Family, We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband, father and grandfather. We are thinking of you all at this time of grief. Sincerely, The DiIorio Family

Condolence From Denzil Mascarenhas

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 10:09:13 EDT

Dearest Merl, Darrell Patricia and family, Rachael and Daniel, Our hearts are deeply saddened at the great loss of Toddy, our beloved brother in law. May the precious Son of God Bless you'll and give you'll the strength in this your time of need and grief. Some of our fondest memories of Toddy include a road trip to Myrtle beach for a vacation and several trips to Woodland Cottages in Cambellford, Ontario, with all the extended family where we had lots of fun and will remember it with fond memories. Toddy was an avid fisherman, throughly enjoyed our fishing adventures, he taught me to put the ''bait on the hook'' Toddy was a remarkable cook too, his mince curry recipe is one we use often and will always be one of our ''go to recipes'' We thank The Lord for Toddy's life to us, a truly genuine and easy going man, and our thoughts and prayers are with you'll and your family. As in Toddy's lingo- '' Lets mosey along'' until we meet again. Rest in Peace Toddy. Love, Denzil Yhuela and Tyler Mascarenhas

Condolence From Amber & Jacob

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 10:05:22 EDT

Dear Merl, Daniel, Rachael & Darrell. So sorry for your loss. I wish we had more time together to see your smiling face And hear the jokes that made me laugh In our special place. All the times you were here Full of life and fun An Uncle always here for me Bringing out the sun. As my eyes fill with tears Because you are no longer here Bringing back all those the years Each tear drop far and near My heart is broken for your loss It will never heal I pray to god to give me strength In time I hope to feel All our loves. Amber and Jacob xx

Condolence From Carol, Mike, James, Theresa, Jessica Gilby

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 10:00:23 EDT

So very sorry for your loss Dearest Merl, Daniel, Rachael and Darrell. If I only had extra time The day you passed away I would have told you all the things I really needed to say. I never got to tell you How much you mean to me Or that you were so wonderful My uncle, kind with love The last time I talked to you I wish I would have known I would have said I love you, and kept you on the phone. But it’s all too late now Your death leaves behind a heartache no one can heal But your love leaves a memory A treasure no one can steal God has called upon you Its time to get your wings And fly with the angels Leaving this life behind Enjoy your new life in heaven But know you will never be forgotten. Love always from Carol, Mike,James, Theresa and Jessica.xxx

Condolence From Bonnie Avery

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 09:04:59 EDT

Merl...We would like to express our sincere condolences to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time Bonnie, Sherri & Glaister, Holly & Justin xo

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Condolence From Rebecca, Abby & Elaina Watson

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 05:50:32 EDT

Dear Aunty Merl, Darrell, Rachael & Daniel We are sorry that you have lost a loving husband and father. May God be by your side at this difficult time and help you get through it all. Uncle Toddy meant a lot to all of us.. Our family has lost a beautiful, kind and gentle soul and heaven has gained yet another angel. We love you Uncle Toddy and we will always have you in out hearts!! God saw you getting tired A cure was not to be, So he put his arms around you And whispered, "come with me." With tearful eyes we watched you And saw you fade away. Although we loved you dearly We could not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating Your tender hands at rest, God took you home to prove to us He only takes the best. God bless you all, Love Rebecca, Abby & Elaina xxxx 🙏🏼❤️

Condolence From Rebecca, Abby & Elaina Waston

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 05:47:28 EDT

Condolence From Matt and Charlene Henkelmann

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 02:45:55 EDT

Uncle Toddy's presence and ability to put everyone at ease with his care, respect and the biggest heart will be immensely missed. Every time we have a family sing-a-long and thumb pluck the guitar, simply tell a good joke "zackly" the right way or ungawa...we will hold his memories close. Aunty Merl, Darrell (Patricia, Sam and Anna), Rachael and Daniel - we hope that during this time, you feel our love, support and prayers regardless of distance. That was one of Uncle Toddy’s strengths – maintaining relationships and taking every opportunity to support family/friends. We will never forget the efforts made to attend our wedding in California and every time we’ve returned back to Canada, it’s like no time passed at all. From another multi-talented, humourist musician Victor Borge - "A smile is the shortest distance between two people". We are so blessed to have Uncle Toddy as part of our lives and his smile certainly brought us all closer together (Matt esp. felt welcomed into our family by his gracious demeanor and sharp wit). We will continue to keep smiling, celebrating Uncle Toddy's beautiful and joyous journey until we meet again on the last day. Love, Charlene and Matt

Condolence From Ellie & Branko Stanekovic

Sun, 26 Aug 2018 23:25:11 EDT

Thinking of you in these difficult times. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Condolence From Shannon and Lilian DSouza

Sun, 26 Aug 2018 22:59:37 EDT

Dearest Merl, Darrel and family, Rachel, and Daniel, Sharing in your sadness as we remember Uncle Toddy. There was never anyone quite like him. His zest for life, family, song and travels will always stay with us, especially the long drives to Las Vegas, Arizona and Los Angeles and in our younger days to Florida. Like I mentioned by his bedside last week he was an anchor to our family, and not only an uncle but like a brother and friend who we were so close to and blessed to share our lives with. Dearest beloved Uncle Toddy, we will miss you immensely and always cherish the memories of all the times we spent together. Until we meet again, may your soul Rest In Peace. Now we know you are no longer in pain and have taken your place as another angel in heaven with my mum. Love,💕 Shannon and Lilian D’Souza

Condolence From Ian Suzanne Michelle Michael Mascarenhas

Sun, 26 Aug 2018 22:15:53 EDT

Dearest Merl Darrell Rachel and Daniel Toddy was a gem like no other a one in a million guy who took the time to speak to each person and always had a great conversation, laugh and if required, the greatest compassion. We admired him greatly. My children too will never forget him and his wonderful sincerity. We will always cherish our last visit with him and the hours we spent together. Gone far too soon but heaven has received a beautiful soul to keep all amused and happy. Toddy we will always love you and may your soul rest in eternal peace.

Condolence From Juliana, Monica & Shaun Desouza

Sun, 26 Aug 2018 19:48:48 EDT

Dearest Merl, Darrell & family, Racheal and Daniel. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. We will always remember Uncle Toddy fondly and have wonderful memories of many times spent with him all during the years we had with him! He leaves behind a wonderful family and we know you will all be a great source of comfort and support to one another. (When you speak of him speak not with tears for thoughts of him should not be sad. Let memories of the times you shared give you comfort for his life was rich because of you all.)

Condolence From Frank & Betty Tapuska

Sun, 26 Aug 2018 18:33:10 EDT

Dear Merl and family, It is with deep sadness that we learn of the passing of your beloved, Jude..husband, father, grandfather, brother, relative and dear friend. We send our love and prayers that God will give you the courage and strength needed to deal with your loss. May the happy memories of Jude bring a smile to your sad hearts! God bless! Frank & Betty

Condolence From Sebastian and Suzanne De Souza

Sun, 26 Aug 2018 17:09:59 EDT

Dear Merl, the children Darrell, Rachael and Daniel, Toddy's brothers and sisters the grandchildren There are no words we can say that will ease the pain. There's an open gate at the end of the road Through which each must go alone; And there is a light we cannot see; Our Father claims his own. Beyond the gate our loved one Finds happiness and rest; And there is comfort In the thought That a loving God knows best

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